Judge Not, Lest She Be Compared

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“She's Too Skinny!”
“She's Too Fat!”

"She shouldn't have cut her hair!”
“She should cut her hair!”

“She wears too much makeup!”
“She needs to wear more makeup!”

“She'd be pretty if it weren't for her nose/ears/lips/eyes!”
“She hasn't aged well!”
“She's clearly had work done!”


 Can we please stop judging other women as a way to convince ourselves we're enough. Judging other women does not make us somehow a superior woman. In fact judging other women keeps us comparing ourselves to other women and increasingly leaves us at a deficit the more we do so.

End the judgement, End the comparison!

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